{"id":695373,"date":"2019-11-13T02:00:19","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T08:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thomrainer.com\/?p=695373"},"modified":"2020-02-07T15:11:41","modified_gmt":"2020-02-07T21:11:41","slug":"seven-ways-to-love-your-community-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/blog\/seven-ways-to-love-your-community-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Seven Ways to Love Your Community"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>By Sam Rainer<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Church leaders should love their churches where they are now, not where they wish their congregations could be in the future. That\u2019s a given, or at least should be. But what about the community? Church leaders should love their communities as much as their churches. Granted, some churches are easier to love than others, and some communities are easier to love than others. A calling to a place, however, requires a love for that place.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One of the pitfalls of church leadership involves the call to a new place\u2014a location in which the new minister has little knowledge.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Some of us grow up living in a number of different places. My family moved every three years or so when I was a child, and I\u2019ve pastored from Florida to Indiana. But even if you have experienced several transitions, a new place of ministry can prompt infatuation or disdain with the community.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Infatuation occurs when you feel like the new location is more exotic: big city, rural community, beachside, in the mountains\u2014whatever excites you more than your current location. But infatuation quickly fades as you settle into a routine. Disdain occurs when you feel like the new community does not provide what your previous community offered. And disdain can stick with you. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whether you\u2019re infatuated or disappointed with the location of your ministry, you must learn to love your new community in the same way you learn to love a new congregation<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Love for a congregation mismatched with disdain for a community will cause you to retreat in an unhealthy church bubble. Either you will lead your congregation inward, or they will (rightly) question your bitterness and lack of outward focus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What are some ways church leaders can learn to love their communities?<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Don\u2019t go home<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. If you\u2019re jumping at every opportunity or fabricating lame excuses, to get back home, then your heart is clearly not in the community. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">God calls church leaders to minister in a place. If you\u2019re looking for any chance to leave that place, then you\u2019re not being a good gospel ambassador.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Join the fun<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Every community has unique ways (or occasions) it celebrates. Jump in and contribute to the celebration. Only the most hardened of curmudgeons can hang on to bitterness when everyone around them is having fun.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Live with the people<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Don\u2019t move to the outskirts, away from the people. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Live in the heart of your community. Your home is not a retreat from ministry; it is a crucial tool in ministry.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Stop complaining<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. It\u2019s difficult to grow a church when you\u2019re gaining a reputation as the town killjoy.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Stay active<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Be on the go in your community. Sedentariness exacerbates loneliness, frustration, displeasure.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Join a civic organization<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Be a leader beyond your church. When the community (in addition to your church) is looking to you for leadership, then you are obligated to create a positive outlook for everyone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Try something new on a regular basis<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Break the routine. Go to different restaurants. Travel different roads. Attend a new festival. Hang out with a different crowd. It\u2019s difficult to harbor negativity when you\u2019re excited about trying something new.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What do you love about your community? How have you learned to love the place where God called you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"By Sam Rainer Church leaders should love their churches where they are now, not where they wish their congregations could be in the future. That\u2019s a given, or at least should be. But what about the community? Church leaders should love their communities as much as their churches. 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