{"id":763822,"date":"2021-12-01T05:00:43","date_gmt":"2021-12-01T11:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/?p=763822"},"modified":"2021-11-29T06:09:22","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T12:09:22","slug":"the-danger-of-envying-another-church-and-how-it-affects-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/blog\/the-danger-of-envying-another-church-and-how-it-affects-you\/","title":{"rendered":"The Danger of Envying Another Church and How It Affects You"},"content":{"rendered":"

Maybe you\u2019re like me. Maybe you\u2019ve looked at another church or pastor with envy.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s that spark of elation you feel when first hearing about a mega-platform pastor falling\u2014envy. I\u2019ve felt the flicker of \u201cI knew it!\u201d without even knowing the person. Envy must be stomped out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Church envy happens at the local level as well. Some will look at the church with the bigger budget or more talented staff and believe pragmatism must be driving the success, not the Holy Spirit. Some pastors will attack the largest church in town simply because it\u2019s the largest. These same pastors likely have never visited the church nor met with the leadership. For most of us, it\u2019s envy that drives the bashing.<\/span><\/p>\n

What are the dangers of church envy?<\/span><\/p>\n

Envy causes resentment<\/b>. What is a key signal for envy? When you\u2019re unhappy that others are happy, you\u2019re likely guilty. To covet is to be discontent with what God has given you and to want something someone else has. To envy is to resent the person for having it. When you scoff at salvation reports from another church, you not only resent that church, you are dangerously close to resenting the gospel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Envy triggers restlessness<\/b>. A constant negative focus on other pastors and churches produces restlessness in your ministry. When you are green with envy for another church, the grass will always be greener at a place other than your current church.<\/span><\/p>\n

Envy drains your energy<\/b>. Do you <\/span>need<\/span><\/i> to see something wrong with another pastor? If so, it\u2019s envy. Envy drains you of what\u2019s positive and fills you with self-pity. Pastors filled with self-pity are often lethargic and caustic, a deadly combination for leading a church.<\/span><\/p>\n

Envy poisons gratitude<\/b>. It\u2019s difficult to be thankful for what you have when you\u2019re internally griping about what you don\u2019t have. Pastors who make constant comparisons out of envy will not enjoy their ministries.<\/span><\/p>\n

Envy clouds your vision<\/b>. Envy pulls your heart away from God\u2019s calling in your local church. When your heart is not in it, you lose your passion. When you lose your passion, you lose your vision. It\u2019s impossible to know where to lead your church if you\u2019re envious of another church.<\/span><\/p>\n

Leadership envy remains hidden for most leaders. The reason is that envy is petty. And we know it. So we internalize the sin while it slowly eats at us. Envy may be the biggest reason why some pastors become shells of their former selves. At the same time, envy may be the least discussed leadership sin.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Maybe you\u2019re like me. Maybe you\u2019ve looked at another church or pastor with envy. It\u2019s that spark of elation you feel when first hearing about a mega-platform pastor falling\u2014envy. I\u2019ve felt the flicker of \u201cI knew it!\u201d without even knowing the person. Envy must be stomped out. 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