{"id":789932,"date":"2022-11-08T05:00:02","date_gmt":"2022-11-08T11:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/?p=789932"},"modified":"2022-11-07T14:46:16","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T20:46:16","slug":"7-mistakes-some-young-leaders-and-pastors-and-older-ones-too-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/blog\/7-mistakes-some-young-leaders-and-pastors-and-older-ones-too-make\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Mistakes Some Young Leaders and Pastors\u2014and Older Ones, Too\u2014Make"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve been a seminary professor for 26+ years, and I\u2019ve mentored young leaders and pastors most of those years. I\u2019ve watched young leaders do really well as they started ministry, but I\u2019ve also seen many face struggles really quickly. My conclusions are anecdotal, but here are some of the most common mistakes I\u2019ve seen young pastors make:<\/span><\/p>\n

1.<\/strong> <\/span>Trying to change too much too quickly.<\/b> They see a need\u2014one <\/span>they<\/span><\/i> see as obvious\u2014and they assume everyone else in the church sees what they see. \u201cSurely everyone will be ready for a quick change,\u201d they think. They\u2019re often wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Focusing almost exclusively on preaching, to the neglect of pastoral care.<\/b> Preaching must indeed be a priority, but I\u2019ve seen young pastors retreat to the office, focus almost exclusively on study, and spend little time with the church family. They then find themselves preaching to a people they don\u2019t really know.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Enacting church discipline quickly even if the church has not done discipline in decades.<\/b> I agree that local churches need to give more attention to the discipline of wayward members. <\/span>That <\/span><\/i>we need to do it is not in question, but <\/span>how <\/span><\/i>and <\/span>when <\/span><\/i>we do it matter. When we do it quickly without adequate education and preparation of the congregation, the church often pays a price.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Being impatient with undiscipled church leaders.<\/b> Many churches have wrongly placed members in leadership who have been faithful in attendance and giving, but who have never truly been discipled. They remain baby believers trying to lead other baby believers\u2014and young, idealistic pastors sometimes seek to correct that problem before helping the church <\/span>understand <\/span><\/i>the problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Giving too little attention to \u201cSenior Saints.\u201d<\/b> It\u2019s natural for young leaders to gravitate toward other young singles, couples, and families, and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that general direction. The problem comes when the young pastor gives little time to those who have often paid the bills and kept the doors open.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Giving up too quickly.<\/b> It\u2019s seldom easy to change overnight what has been ingrained in the church for decades. Young leaders, however, are often accustomed to a microwave world where everything ought to be quick\u2014including church change. They get frustrated with the slow pace of change and often leave a church too soon. The problem is that they don\u2019t recognize their departure was speedy until after they\u2019ve left.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Assuming they would never fall morally.<\/b> I\u2019ve seen some young leaders fall before they ever got started in ministry \u2013 but none of them assumed it would ever happen to them. They were convinced they would not fall into traps that have taken down other leaders. Again, some gifted young leaders have been wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

I have focused on young leaders with this post, but older leaders and pastors sometimes make the same mistakes. None of us is immune from making bad choices or moving in unhealthy directions. Based on your own experiences, what would you add to this list?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Want more helpful resources on this subject? <\/i><\/b>Check out<\/i><\/b> Leading Change When Nobody Wants It by Sam Rainer<\/i><\/b><\/a>, <\/i><\/b>Five Things Older Pastors Would Tell Their Younger Selves<\/i><\/b><\/a>, and <\/b>Church Answers Membership<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I\u2019ve been a seminary professor for 26+ years, and I\u2019ve mentored young leaders and pastors most of those years. I\u2019ve watched young leaders do really well as they started ministry, but I\u2019ve also seen many face struggles really quickly. 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