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Prioritize your family. Never stop serving the church. These two ideas are not at odds. My family is my primary ministry. They matter more to me than any local church. For that reason, I hope my family thrives in our church. One effective way I can nurture that love and growth in my family, especially with my kids, is by involving them in ministry.<\/span><\/p>\n

The Lord has blessed my wife and me with three sons. They love our church family, and our church loves them. I\u2019m genuinely grateful. Regarding the church, I hope my kids will love others well and feel loved in return. It\u2019s a joy to have my kids involved in my life and our church community. Here are a few ways I strive to maintain that joy:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Encourage<\/b> them<\/b> to<\/b> find<\/b> a<\/b> place<\/b> to<\/b> serve.<\/b> I want every young person in our church, including my sons, to discover a role in service. I hope they will embrace this role and serve Jesus faithfully. Admittedly, service manifests itself differently in children depending on their age, personality, and other factors. Nevertheless, I hope my sons will always contribute to the church.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Take<\/b> them<\/b> with<\/b> me<\/b> on<\/b> trips<\/b> and<\/b> speaking<\/b> engagements.<\/b> My life involves a lot of travel. Whenever I go out of town, I always try to take one of my family members along. Not only does it help keep me accountable, but it also allows me to spend time with those I love the most. My wife always joins me at our denomination\u2019s annual meeting. My oldest son usually travels with me for two or three-day trips. My younger sons may accompany me to one-day speaking engagements. My boys often mention how much they enjoy these times together, and I\u2019m so glad the opportunity is there.<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Explain<\/b> certain<\/b> aspects<\/b> of<\/b> my<\/b> job.<\/b> Church leaders\u2019 kids witness many events in the church that other children don\u2019t experience. It\u2019s inevitable. Therefore, instead of having them feel confused or frustrated, I strive to clarify why certain things are happening. I want them to understand why Dad might have more evening meetings than usual. I want them to know why a specific person no longer attends our church. I explain how my job differs from other jobs. I don\u2019t share everything about the church with my kids. However, I do try to keep them informed to a certain extent.<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Surround<\/b> them<\/b> with<\/b> godly<\/b> individuals<\/b> in<\/b> our<\/b> church.<\/b> One of the beautiful realities of the church is that we are a family who helps each other improve. The people in our church help guide my journey as a Christian, and by God\u2019s grace, I also support their growth. The same goes for my children. The church assists my kids in their walk with Jesus. Thus, I involve my sons in my ministry by surrounding them with those who will help them become better men of God.<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Elevate joy and laughter.<\/b> Having fun is always preferable to the alternative. We have a very lively household. Humor and playfulness are significant aspects of our lives. Therefore, we carry that humor and playfulness to church as well. We laugh, we play, and we relish being with others who enjoy laughter and play. Of course, there\u2019s a time to be serious and solemn. I teach this to my children as well. However, I would fail my children if they came to see church and ministry as dull and boring. May it never be so.<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Talk<\/b> about<\/b> them<\/b> in<\/b> my<\/b> preaching<\/b> and<\/b> teaching.<\/b> My kids usually enjoy it when I mention them, but that may not always be the case. I also know each kid is unique, so I use discernment. When I am in doubt about whether something I say will bother my kids, I ask them ahead of time. Mentioning my kids in my preaching seems to connect the church with my family.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    These are a few ways that I seek to involve my kids in my ministry. What has worked for you? I\u2019d love to hear from you in the comments.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Prioritize your family. Never stop serving the church. These two ideas are not at odds. My family is my primary ministry. They matter more to me than any local church. For that reason, I hope my family thrives in our church. 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