{"id":866518,"date":"2026-03-26T05:00:21","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T10:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/?p=866518"},"modified":"2026-03-21T11:23:51","modified_gmt":"2026-03-21T16:23:51","slug":"i-was-20-unready-and-called-to-pastor-what-that-first-church-gave-me-still-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/churchanswers.com\/blog\/i-was-20-unready-and-called-to-pastor-what-that-first-church-gave-me-still-matters\/","title":{"rendered":"I Was 20, Unready, and Called to Pastor\u2014What That First Church Gave Me Still Matters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was March 1981. I had turned 20 just a few months before, and I was in conversation with a small country church in Ohio about becoming their pastor. Looking back now, 45 years later, the whole story is a bit unusual.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I knew the church because one of their previous pastors had been the youth pastor where I was a member as a teenager. God saved me when I was 13, and the church had a few youth pastors during my teen years\u2014but this pastor really challenged me to consider my calling to preach. When he himself became the senior pastor of the church I would later pastor, he invited me often to preach so I could grow in this task. He opened the door for me to do what I still love to do so much today: to preach the Word.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have no idea why that church called me as pastor, except that they were looking for someone who would come cheaply. And I would have preached for nothing! The crowd was small (only 19 people attended on the first Sunday), but those few made a difference in my life. Here are some things I remember:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ol>\n<li><b>They invited me into their lives. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because I was so young, I wasn\u2019t sure how pastors were supposed to act with members. I\u2019m sure I was sometimes isolated and introverted, but these folks welcomed me into their homes. From the grandmother who invited me to breakfast with her family every Friday morning to the folks who allowed me to live in their home, they loved me. I was not only their pastor; I was their friend.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>They loved me enough to let me make mistakes&#8230; and start again.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I\u2019m honestly surprised they didn\u2019t fire me at times because of my poor leadership. I was arrogant about my \u201csuccess\u201d as a young preacher and thought I was almost always right. I wasn\u2019t, and they knew that fact. Still, they loved me. They gave me room to err, gently but necessarily corrected me, and still allowed me more opportunities to lead.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>They drove me crazy sometimes, but they deeply loved the Lord.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I remember out-of-control business meetings that were hours long and conversations that were not always easy, but I also remember people who loved the Lord deeply. I often think of members who told everyone they knew about Jesus. Over the course of two years, we saw someone follow Christ in faith and repentance almost every Sunday. God blessed our craziness that began with me.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>They taught me about simple faith.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Thinking back, I\u2019m amazed by how much they trusted the Lord through difficulties like the loss of a job, the death of a child, the wandering of an adult child, the rage of alcoholism, and the ravages of cancer. Many of the members could not have explained things theologically, but they trusted God with their questions. They simply leaned on Him, and they modeled faith for me when they faced things I had never encountered in my young life.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>They graciously launched me into my next steps in ministry.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I had no idea how much it would hurt when I resigned from that first church to move to my second place of ministry. I was excited about the move, but the pain was great when I announced my departure to my first congregation. To their credit, they blessed my leaving even as they grieved with me. All they wanted was for me to follow the Lord, even if that meant my going to another church. Many of those folks remained friends for years, and I still have some of the cards they gave me on my last Sunday there.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t know how long you\u2019ve been in ministry, but I pray you can look back and see God\u2019s hand in your history. Sometimes, the passage of time helps us see differently, even those church members who were problematic in the past, and we learn to love even the unlovable members of yesterday. We eventually learn that we\u2019re all products of folks who once trusted us to lead them, even when we weren\u2019t really ready.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don\u2019t know about you, but I\u2019m really grateful for those folks today.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It was March 1981. I had turned 20 just a few months before, and I was in conversation with a small country church in Ohio about becoming their pastor. 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