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https://churchanswers.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Welcome-sign-at-entry-of-a-church.png1200628“Our church is really not for you.” That was actually said to a guest by a church member. Not in jest. Not in passing. In all sincerity. Unfortunately, it’s not the only instance of a church failing miserably to welcome someone new. I’ve been fascinated by the topic of church guests for years. Maybe obsessed is a better word. I’ve written dozens of articles, led research projects, and gathered stories from across the country. Some of those stories are positive—uplifting, even. But others? They reveal a side of the church that’s hard to face. In fact, one of my most-read blog posts—focused on how churches treat guests—has been viewed nearly one million times. It’s not viral because it’s funny or controversial. It’s viral because it hits a nerve. So, I combed through hundreds of your comments and emails and compiled what I call the top ten worst guest experiences reported by real people in real churches. There’s no joy in sharing these stories, but there’s clarity. These experiences shine a spotlight on what must change if we truly want to be welcoming communities of grace.